When you want to talk to her, it says “She’s busy”.
When you start the conversation, it says “This is weird”.
When she laughs at your joke, it says “She just thinks you’re a clown”.
When she starts opening up and talking about her life, it says “This is getting boring”.
When you want to ask for her number, it says “You’re not ready”.
When she gives you her number, it says “She’s just being nice”.
When you are going to text her, it says “This isn’t good enough”.
When she agrees to meet up with you, it says “This date won’t be good enough”.
When the time is right to make a move, it says “You’re going to get rejected”.
Everyone has an anxious voice that chimes up when they are entering unknown territory. It’s a fearful voice, left over from when the world was a much more dangerous place.
Whenever it speaks up, just say: