I want to follow up a bit on dating conservative women. A lot of guys who would love to date conservative women tell me there is just one problem – conservative women are hard to find (or they’re taken). That’s why I tell guys to focus on values, not political positions. And here’s the other […]
Last month, a student leaned into me and, with a hushed voice, told me one of his deepest and darkest secrets.
“I think I want to date women who are a bit more conservative”
He looked kind of ashamed as he said it.
Continuing on the topic of gooroos and how a great many of them are full of boulshyte and worse.
A lot of people wonder – how bad can it be?
Surly, they can’t be lying about everything.
How Many Lies can a Liar Lie
Oh my sweet summer child… you have no idea…
On Wednesday, New York governor Andrew Cuomo said something that might sink his career. It’s also a great example of the sort of “invisible fence” that can absolutely kill your ability to solve problems. Here’s the quote: “We’re not gonna make America great again, it was never that great.” Oh boy….. ಠ_ಠOk, first, let’s put aside the question of […]
Time for some Friday night inspiration… This week I’ve been talking about how the media you consume shapes your perceptions and ideas about the world. I talked about how your idea of a “good” conversation is shaped by the fiction you consume. But enough complaining. After all, pessimists can’t solve problems. Now I want to […]
Following up from last week’s post, here’s a concrete example of how mass media and badly written fiction can create social anxiety and screw up your dating life. Imagine you’re on a date, or in a conversation with someone you’re attracted to. Gradually, the conversation dies down, and you want to get it going again. And […]