There’s a weird idea out there that gets pushed by a lot of dating gurus. It’s the idea that if you want women to see you as a strong, “alpha” guy with options, you have to play hard to get. I swear, every week I get an email from a guy that goes something like […]
The OkCupid Blog has come out with a new piece of research on online dating habits, and it’s really interesting. The study examines the relationship between gender and taking the initiative in dating. After looking through messaging data on their online dating site, OkCupid analysts came to the conclusion that, in online dating, women who message men first tend to […]
Someone asked me, “What’s the best way to impress a girl?”. The first thing you need to know is that you don’t impress a girl by doing something, but by being someone. The things you do are only relevant so much as they illustrate what kind of person you are. So don’t take the attitude of doing something to impress a girl, instead be an impressive man and things will take care of themselves.
So here’s my appearance on Global Montreal this morning. I talked about the five dating mistakes that most men don’t know they’re making. The mistakes I mentioned (and some ideas to improve if you have these problems) are: #1 Bodylanguage – Read this article on Attractive Posture if you want some quick body […]
I wrote an article for DatingAdvice.com this week that you may want to check out on the Secret of Attraction: One of the most common questions I get from guys I am teaching is probably the most basic: What are women really attracted to? Let’s be honest, what men are attracted to is pretty straightforward. Guys […]
In March, I talked about “The Power of Makeup” and exposed how powerful makeup can be in changing the way men perceive female beauty, and how limiting beliefs around beauty can hold men back from dating the women they like, and from liking the women they date. But illusions about beauty cut both ways. A lot […]