There’s a weird idea out there that gets pushed by a lot of dating gurus. It’s the idea that if you want women to see you as a strong, “alpha” guy with options, you have to play hard to get. I swear, every week I get an email from a guy that goes something like […]
The OkCupid Blog has come out with a new piece of research on online dating habits, and it’s really interesting. The study examines the relationship between gender and taking the initiative in dating. After looking through messaging data on their online dating site, OkCupid analysts came to the conclusion that, in online dating, women who message men first tend to […]
Someone asked me, “What’s the best way to impress a girl?”. The first thing you need to know is that you don’t impress a girl by doing something, but by being someone. The things you do are only relevant so much as they illustrate what kind of person you are. So don’t take the attitude of doing something to impress a girl, instead be an impressive man and things will take care of themselves.
So here’s my appearance on Global Montreal this morning. I talked about the five dating mistakes that most men don’t know they’re making. The mistakes I mentioned (and some ideas to improve if you have these problems) are: #1 Bodylanguage – Read this article on Attractive Posture if you want some quick body […]
Probably the most common question I am asked is “How do you create attraction”. Of course, I have a ton of techniques that I teach guys, but the key to all these techniques is understanding how attraction REALLY works in women. So in this video, I explain my simple, elegant theory of attraction that – […]
I was in Vancouver last week, and while I was there, I took some time off to make a video on a really remarkable study on the science of attraction. The study was performed by researchers at UBC back in the 70’s, and it analyzed the relationship between fear, attraction and anxiety. The video is a […]