I wrote an article for DatingAdvice.com this week that you may want to check out on the Secret of Attraction:
One of the most common questions I get from guys I am teaching is probably the most basic: What are women really attracted to?
Let’s be honest, what men are attracted to is pretty straightforward. Guys might differ in their particular tastes, but most guys know what qualities in a woman turn them on and what qualities turn them off.
With women, attraction is more complex.
Some women will find a man attractive from across the room and be turned off the moment he opens his mouth.
Other times, there will be the opposite effect: A guy who does not seem attractive at first glance becomes suddenly sexy by exuding a certain type of charm.