In December I tend wrack my brains thinking about my plans for the next year.
I’m an ambitious guy, and the end of the year is a great time to think about the future, my mission in life – and how I want to pursue it.
This year I told my friend that my mission for 2018 was “to prevent the decline and extinction of the human race, by helping smart, ambitious guys get dates”.
I was half joking, but I believe in setting high goals for myself….
I realized though that if I want to really have an impact on people’s lives in 2018, I need to do something extraordinary. Something new…
So I did a lot of research…
I’ve been talking with guys all over the world for the past year – hundreds of conversations.
I’ve realized that there are a lot of unique struggles that smart, ambitious, professional men face in dating.
These struggles leave a lot of professional guys at a disadvantage in the dating market.
First of all, professional men have a hard time with the regular “pick up” stuff that is so popular on the internet.
Most dating advice online is aimed at 21 year old university students. It isn’t applicable to mature men who have their lives together.
Second, most of the men I spoke to are not looking to “hook up” or “get laid” or have casual meaningless relationships.
They want to meet women that they *really connect with*.
But they also want to date around first so they know they’re not settling.
The guys I spoke to want to in develop real skills in understanding women and interpersonal relationships. They want skills that will benefit them in dating, in their social life, and in the workplace.
They want to become better conversationalists. They want to understand the weird signals that women give. They want to know how to reliably create chemistry with the kind of woman they’re attracted to.
The more I heard about these problems, the more I realized that this was a widespread need. And what’s important is that there was nobody who was really addressing this.
These guys needed a solution. Something that didn’t involve spending a fortune on 1 on 1 coaching, or watching hours and hours of lectures by self-described “pick up artists”.
So my thought was, maybe I could create a course. Something simple and easy to follow. A few weeks, a few hours a week. Practical, mostly exercise based.
The goal: to turn your dating life around in 5 weeks. To distill my 10 years of hard earned experience into something your average guy can use, wherever he is.
To make the people who attend this course into someone who can start a conversation out of nowhere – online, in a bar or in a coffee shop. To teach them how to go from chat to intimacy, to a relationship – if that’s your goal.
I want to do this because it’s part of my mission for 2018. But I want to know from you guys – is this crazy, is it nuts? Is it the sort of thing that isn’t going to work out?
Or do you think that – in spite of the risks – this would be something worth doing?
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