One of the privileges I’ve had as a dating coach is that I have had the opportunity to travel around the world and meet dozens and dozens of dating “gurus” over the years.
Some of these guys consider themselves pretty big deals. Guys whose egos could fill a whole room.
And, while plenty of guys in the dating coaching business are solid good people, others are so obviously full of boulshyte that it’s remarkable that anyone takes them seriously at all.
I’m talking about internet tough guys that turn out to be scrawny twerpy looking dudes who can’t even look you in the eye. Or guys who almost certainly haven’t been out of their basement in a year or two.
I can understand where these guys are coming from. The internet is a place where huffing and puffing and being fake is rewarded.
And why not be full of boulshyte when you can get paid for it (especially when you don’t have any higher principles).
If you haven’t noticed yet. I prefer not to play that game.
I don’t want to be a gooroo or impress people over the internet.
I’m in the business of being Chris Shepherd, humble merchant of dating coaching services.
When you try too hard, boasting or trying to trick people into liking or respecting you, people can smell it from a mile away.
On the other hand, when you’re centred, and you have real confidence, you don’t need to huff and puff and put on a show.
Smart people can sense the real deal.
If you have confidence problems, you need to build yourself up right. Not by building up a fake, narcissistic version of yourself, but by building up the real you.
I’ve got a few spots for phone coaching available in October, and I’m just in the process of booking the time for the Social Mastery Infield Coaching group.
The difference these programs offer is that they are focused on building SKILLS. So your confidence is grounded in a real solid foundation of self worth and competence.
Not boulshyte. Not phony “game”. Not huffy puffy ego-massaging.
Real social skills and real charm based off of real self confidence.
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