Every once in a while, someone on my list emails me asking for my secret sauce.
You know, the line or tactic that I teach guys to get them instant results. The one special technique that will work for “a guy like them”.
I call these guys “advice addicts”, and they don’t get it.
They don’t understand what the problem *really* is.
These guys think they are suffering from a lack of information – but they already have all the information they need right at their fingertips.
In fact, most of these guys already have TOO MUCH information. They have been reading dating advice for years.
Even if I gave these guys the keys to the kingdom, the perfect set of things to say, they would still mess it up.
Because deep down inside their real problem is not a lack of information.
In fact, they’re addicted to a dopamine drip of new information.
And at the same time they’re paralyzed by an emotional program that prevents them from taking action.
That’s why I really believe in the transformative power of personal coaching.
Because coaching is not about revealing some sort of super, top-secret information.
Instead, it’s about producing the kind of change in a person that would be impossible over video or email .
Personalized coaching can:
- Create a safe environment so you can see yourself more clearly;
- Identify gaps between where you are and where you need or want to be;
- Motivate intentional thought, action and behavior changes;
- Help build the structure, accountability, and support necessary to ensure sustained commitment;
- Most importantly, coaching and real EXPERIENCE can help you rewrite your emotional programming;
This is something that no book can show you, no lecture can teach you.
It’s something you can only get from taking smart action with a skilled coach.
A lot of guys will never learn. They’ll keep reading dating coaching blogs forever, waiting for some secret hidden knowledge that will change their lives. All while never doing anything.
You don’t want to be one of those guys.
If you want to get off the dopamine drip and start taking real action to improve your life, the Social Mastery coaching program is starting this weekend in Toronto.
It’s small group. Private, Intimate, Transformative.
And it involves real work.
If you would rather scour the internet for more dating advice, be my guest.
But if you want to get started on building a new, better lifestyle for yourself, just click the link below to sign up.