So, in addition to my appearance on News Talk 1010 last week, I also sat down with Hootie to contribute to a new episode of the Love Systems Podcast. In this episode, I go a bit deeper into some inner game concepts, and discuss poutine, confidence and how your beliefs affect your actions. If you […]
Inner Game Archives
Inner Game in Dating is all about learning to overcome the inner obstacles to creating attraction from women. Fear, anxiety and self-doubt are the enemies, confidence and relaxed competence are the goals. In the end, improving your inner game is the best thing you can do for your love life. Here is an archive of Inner Game related advice, for your reference.
Be honest with yourself. How many times has this happened? You’re in a bar or at a party, and you see a girl you’re interested in, and you want to talk to her. But instead of talking to her, you think to yourself “I’ll just have a drink first, to loosen up“. And then maybe […]
I remember being nineteen years old in my first week of University when I first heard the advice to “just be confident” when talking to women. Before I started figuring things out for myself, “just be confident” and “just be yourself” were the only two pieces of dating advice that I had ever really gotten, and it […]
Letting go of guilt and shame is an important part of being a confident man. But how do you do that without becoming an asshole? Aaron was standing by the bar in an upscale pub in Toronto, it was 10:30 and he still hadn’t approached a girl yet. He was sipping a vodka soda […]
One of our good commenters (commentators?) who goes by “A Feminist” wrote an intelligent and thoughtful response to my Death of The Boyfriend post that deserves some front-page attention. I agree with you that people today aren’t necessarily sleeping with a higher quantity of partners, rather just not in bf/gf situations. But I think the […]
One of the niggling insecurities that I remember having in university was the vague feeling that not only was everyone working harder than me and getting better grades than me, but they were also probably having more fun and more sex too. Turns out I was wrong – people were working harder then me but […]