A lot of guys are worried about the level of “competition” out there in the dating market.They think that the average guy can’t compete. But most of the time, the real competition is inside you. It’s inside your head. “Competition is a conspiracy of the mind”.I found this great and inspiring thread on the TRUE nature competition, […]
Inner Game Archives
Inner Game in Dating is all about learning to overcome the inner obstacles to creating attraction from women. Fear, anxiety and self-doubt are the enemies, confidence and relaxed competence are the goals. In the end, improving your inner game is the best thing you can do for your love life. Here is an archive of Inner Game related advice, for your reference.
I remember being nineteen years old in my first week of University when I first heard the advice to “just be confident” when talking to women. Before I started figuring things out for myself, “just be confident” and “just be yourself” were the only two pieces of dating advice that I had ever really gotten, and it […]
If you want to be a confident person, and to really be effective in life, one of the key things you need to do is to focus your energy on the things you have control over, and LET go of the things that are not under your control. In this video I go into depth […]
Earlier this week I made a post about the real secret of what confidence is – and if you want to build your confidence you should check that out first. But the kind of confidence that I was describing in that post is really the endpoint of a long process. So to help you along that […]
Intro: A lot of guys seek out dating advice from their female friends. Some of this advice is good, but a lot of it is very misleading. Here are some reasons why women give bad dating advice, and how to find dating advice that works for you. I’m sitting in a cafe in Toronto with some […]
On my first day at the Thai Boxing camp in Chaing Mai, we started by jogging around the neighbourhood a few times, through the gravel roads, mango groves and narrow alleys of Thailand’s second biggest city. It was 35 degrees, and I was badly out of shape after several weeks of sitting on beaches and […]