When I was a kid, I used to walk to school past a house that had one of those “invisible fences” to keep the dog in the yard. Every day, the little doggo would run out to the edge of the property and yap at us as we walked by. Every single day. But, no […]
Dating Psychology Archives
Psychology in Dating is all about learning to overcome the inner obstacles to creating attraction from women. Fear, anxiety and self-doubt are the enemies, confidence and relaxed competence are the goals. In the end, improving your inner game is the best thing you can do for your love life. Here is an archive of Inner Game related advice, for your reference.
Following up from last week’s post, here’s a concrete example of how mass media and badly written fiction can create social anxiety and screw up your dating life. Imagine you’re on a date, or in a conversation with someone you’re attracted to. Gradually, the conversation dies down, and you want to get it going again. And […]
Ok, it’s Friday night again and time for some inspiration. This one is simple but incredibly profound. A few weeks ago, I heard from a friend who is an absolute monster when it comes to many aspects of his life. This guy is an athlete, runs a successful business, eats a very disciplined diet and […]
Here’s some inspiration to make your weekend a bit more social. I want to talk a bit about belief, and how it has such an incredibly strong influence on your success, especially in dating. There are actually 4 key beliefs that I think are crucial to developing your self confidence, charisma and dating life. But let’s talk about the […]
A lot of guys are worried about the level of “competition” out there in the dating market.They think that the average guy can’t compete. But most of the time, the real competition is inside you. It’s inside your head. “Competition is a conspiracy of the mind”.I found this great and inspiring thread on the TRUE nature competition, […]
I remember being nineteen years old in my first week of University when I first heard the advice to “just be confident” when talking to women. Before I started figuring things out for myself, “just be confident” and “just be yourself” were the only two pieces of dating advice that I had ever really gotten, and it […]