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Valentines Day Q&A – Watch Out For this V-Day Trap

Reader Brandon sent in this great question for the V-Day Q&A Hey Chris, Love everything you’re about! Thank you for your time and knowledge🏻 My question is…been dating a girl for a couple months. Went to make reservations for dinner here in San Diego. They were all booked up. Now what? She doesn’t care what […]

Neediness and The Predatory Ape

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Neediness and The Predatory Ape

Last week I talked about the stink of neediness and how having standards can help eliminate neediness. But let’s talk a bit about WHY neediness is so toxic. Neediness doesn’t just kill your ability to create attraction in your dating life. It can also screw up job interviews. It can screw up negotiations. It can […]

Tom Brady

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Superbowl Sunday Inspiration from Tom Brady

Whatever you think about Tom Brady, you can’t deny two things. First, the guy wins a lot of superbowls. Second he’s married to supermodel Giselle Bundchen. So, I think it’s safe to say he knows a thing or two about success. Tom Brady is also a guy who was drafted 199th overall and was someone […]

The Stink of Neediness

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How to Lose The Stink of Neediness

If there’s one thing that is the kiss of death for attraction, it’s neediness. When you’re showing neediness, it gives everything you do an unpleasant quality you can’t quite get rid of. Dates, online messaging, text messages, relationships. They all suffer if you’re exuding neediness. If you pay attention, you can see neediness everywhere around […]

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Fraud, Fakery and the Fyre Festival

Watching Netflix’s recent documentary on the Fyre Festival really brought back old memories for me…. traumatic memories… If you haven’t watched the documentary, the Fyre Festival was a super-hyped festival in the Bahamas that was sold as the greatest and sexiest concert that was ever going to happen. But despite an amazing marketing campaign, it […]

How to Start a Conversation

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Why You Need a Smart Dating Strategy for 2019

Everywhere I go, I hear guys saying the same thing. Online dating is frustrating. Clubs and bars are annoying and shallow. And it just seems like meeting COOL people is harder than ever. And you know what? Dating *IS* harder than ever. Especially if you don’t have a strategy. What do I mean about a […]

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Pleasure, Pain, and the Internal Compass

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There are three problems I have noticed amongst young men that appear to be approaching epidemic levels in our society. (Chances are, if you don’t suffer from one of these problems yourself, you know someone who does.) The three problems are: 1) a lack of motivation in life. 2) neediness in relationships with women, and […]

Is Gratitude Over-Rated?

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Here’s a philosophical question for Thanksgiving weekend:  WHY should you be thankful?  Not what are you thankful for. Or who should you be thankful to. The hard-to-answer question is – WHY should you be thankful in the first place? To put it another way: what is the point of gratitude?   After all, it’s very easy to be critical.  Especially when you […]

Bigfoot Dating **SECRETS**

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Meeting someone you really like can be quite the search, but there are ways you can make it easier.  Year after year, people go looking for just a glimpse of the mysterious half-ape, half-man creature that is rumoured to roam the western part of North America.  And despite all the effort expended to track him […]

ADHD and Social Anxiety

Attention Deficit Disorder and Social Anxiety

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In last week’s post I talked about how people with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD or ADHD) tend to miss social cues. Now let’s talk about the consequences that missing social cues can have on your social life and on your confidence. ADHD is a lifelong condition. That means that if you suffer from ADHD, then […]

The Power of Truth

Friday Night Inspiration – The Power of Truth

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Ok, it’s Friday night and time for a little inspiration. In my last post, I talked about the “Truth” and how it’s basically the secret weapon of self improvement. The reason I say that is because when you *really* get down and are really honest about your problems, you tend to find solutions. I’m not […]

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  • Valentines Day Q&A – Watch Out For this V-Day Trap February 12, 2019
  • How to Not Be Screwed on Valentines Day – (Special V Day Q&A ) February 12, 2019
  • Neediness and The Predatory Ape February 6, 2019
  • Superbowl Sunday Inspiration from Tom Brady February 3, 2019
  • How to Lose The Stink of Neediness February 1, 2019
  • Fraud, Fakery and the Fyre Festival January 31, 2019
  • Why You Need a Smart Dating Strategy for 2019 January 29, 2019
  • What Marie Kondo Can Teach You About Relationships January 19, 2019
  • An Alternative To Compromise January 16, 2019
  • The Best Book I Read in 2018 – Jim Camp on Negotiation January 9, 2019

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