If you haven’t watched it yet, this year’s Academy Award winning documentary “Free Solo” is a great film with a weird love story you might find interesting. You see, free climber Alex Honnold is a man who is obsessed with his goal of climbing El Capitain, a 3,200 foot high rock wall in Yosemite Park. […]
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The Single Guy Social Warp Bubble
In the fourth season of Star Trek: The Next Generation there was a great little episode called “Remember Me”. In it, medical officer Dr. Beverly Crusher starts to notice that people are disappearing off of the Enterprise – without a trace. First it’s one of her medical assistants. Then all her medical assistants disappear. Then […]
Why I Don’t Give a Frig About Your Self esteem
If you’re someone who is working on improving your self esteem, you might find this blog post painful and uncomfortable. You also might save a lot of time and energy and get a lot more out of your life (including success with the ladies). Consider yourself warned. I want to destroy your faith in self […]
Valentines Day Q&A – Watch Out For this V-Day Trap
Reader Brandon sent in this great question for the V-Day Q&A Hey Chris, Love everything you’re about! Thank you for your time and knowledge🏻 My question is…been dating a girl for a couple months. Went to make reservations for dinner here in San Diego. They were all booked up. Now what? She doesn’t care what […]
Neediness and The Predatory Ape
Last week I talked about the stink of neediness and how having standards can help eliminate neediness. But let’s talk a bit about WHY neediness is so toxic. Neediness doesn’t just kill your ability to create attraction in your dating life. It can also screw up job interviews. It can screw up negotiations. It can […]
Superbowl Sunday Inspiration from Tom Brady
Whatever you think about Tom Brady, you can’t deny two things. First, the guy wins a lot of superbowls. Second he’s married to supermodel Giselle Bundchen. So, I think it’s safe to say he knows a thing or two about success. Tom Brady is also a guy who was drafted 199th overall and was someone […]