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Why You Need a Smart Dating Strategy for 2019

Everywhere I go, I hear guys saying the same thing. Online dating is frustrating. Clubs and bars are annoying and shallow. And it just seems like meeting COOL people is harder than ever. And you know what? Dating *IS* harder than ever. Especially if you don’t have a strategy. What do I mean about a […]

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What Marie Kondo Can Teach You About Relationships

Marie Kondo’s new Netflix series “Tidying Up With Marie Kondo” is a gem.  I highly recommend watching this show, even if you already have the tidiest room on the planet. That’s because the show is a great insight into human nature, relationships and psychology. In the series, Kondo visits a range of typical-but-messy American homes […]

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An Alternative To Compromise

One of the things I like most about my favorite book of 2018, is how it presents a great alternative to “compromise” as a way of negotiating with people. Now, don’t get me wrong, compromise is a great tool to resolve disputes in relationships and elsewhere. But there are a lot of situations where you […]

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Start With No

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The Best Book I Read in 2018 – Jim Camp on Negotiation

Happy New Year everyone! I wanted to start off the year by sharing something that really helped me – a great book I read towards the end of 2018.  It was written by the famous Jim Camp, a guy who has coached the FBI on how to negotiate with terrorists, hostage takers and all sorts […]

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Pleasure, Pain, and the Internal Compass

There are three problems I have noticed amongst young men that appear to be approaching epidemic levels in our society. (Chances are, if you don’t suffer from one of these problems yourself, you know someone who does.) The three problems are: 1) a lack of motivation in life. 2) neediness in relationships with women, and […]

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The Lonely Badboy Blues

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How To Avoid the Lonely Badboy Blues

I recieved a very thoughtful response  to one of my emails (about badboys) recently. It made me think of some profound issues that affect men today and I wanted to share it with you.  Here’s what he wrote: Chris, Thank you for this email, it personally resonated with me at the perfect time. I am and have […]

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Is Gratitude Over-Rated?

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Here’s a philosophical question for Thanksgiving weekend:  WHY should you be thankful?  Not what are you thankful for. Or who should you be thankful to. The hard-to-answer question is – WHY should you be thankful in the first place? To put it another way: what is the point of gratitude?   After all, it’s very easy to be critical.  Especially when you […]

Bigfoot Dating **SECRETS**

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Meeting someone you really like can be quite the search, but there are ways you can make it easier.  Year after year, people go looking for just a glimpse of the mysterious half-ape, half-man creature that is rumoured to roam the western part of North America.  And despite all the effort expended to track him […]

ADHD and Social Anxiety

Attention Deficit Disorder and Social Anxiety

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In last week’s post I talked about how people with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD or ADHD) tend to miss social cues. Now let’s talk about the consequences that missing social cues can have on your social life and on your confidence. ADHD is a lifelong condition. That means that if you suffer from ADHD, then […]

The Power of Truth

Friday Night Inspiration – The Power of Truth

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Ok, it’s Friday night and time for a little inspiration. In my last post, I talked about the “Truth” and how it’s basically the secret weapon of self improvement. The reason I say that is because when you *really* get down and are really honest about your problems, you tend to find solutions. I’m not […]

Learned Helplessness

Invisible Fences

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When I was a kid, I used to walk to school past a house that had one of those “invisible fences” to keep the dog in the yard. Every day, the little doggo would run out to the edge of the property and yap at us as we walked by. Every single day. But, no […]

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