Last week I talked about the stink of neediness and how having standards can help eliminate neediness. But let’s talk a bit about WHY neediness is so toxic. Neediness doesn’t just kill your ability to create attraction in your dating life. It can also screw up job interviews. It can screw up negotiations. It can […]
Superbowl Sunday Inspiration from Tom Brady
Whatever you think about Tom Brady, you can’t deny two things. First, the guy wins a lot of superbowls. Second he’s married to supermodel Giselle Bundchen. So, I think it’s safe to say he knows a thing or two about success. Tom Brady is also a guy who was drafted 199th overall and was someone […]
How to Lose The Stink of Neediness
If there’s one thing that is the kiss of death for attraction, it’s neediness. When you’re showing neediness, it gives everything you do an unpleasant quality you can’t quite get rid of. Dates, online messaging, text messages, relationships. They all suffer if you’re exuding neediness. If you pay attention, you can see neediness everywhere around […]
Fraud, Fakery and the Fyre Festival
Watching Netflix’s recent documentary on the Fyre Festival really brought back old memories for me…. traumatic memories… If you haven’t watched the documentary, the Fyre Festival was a super-hyped festival in the Bahamas that was sold as the greatest and sexiest concert that was ever going to happen. But despite an amazing marketing campaign, it […]
Why You Need a Smart Dating Strategy for 2019
Everywhere I go, I hear guys saying the same thing. Online dating is frustrating. Clubs and bars are annoying and shallow. And it just seems like meeting COOL people is harder than ever. And you know what? Dating *IS* harder than ever. Especially if you don’t have a strategy. What do I mean about a […]
What Marie Kondo Can Teach You About Relationships
Marie Kondo’s new Netflix series “Tidying Up With Marie Kondo” is a gem. I highly recommend watching this show, even if you already have the tidiest room on the planet. That’s because the show is a great insight into human nature, relationships and psychology. In the series, Kondo visits a range of typical-but-messy American homes […]