Everywhere I go, I hear guys saying the same thing. Online dating is frustrating. Clubs and bars are annoying and shallow. And it just seems like meeting COOL people is harder than ever. And you know what? Dating *IS* harder than ever. Especially if you don’t have a strategy. What do I mean about a […]
What Marie Kondo Can Teach You About Relationships
Marie Kondo’s new Netflix series “Tidying Up With Marie Kondo” is a gem. I highly recommend watching this show, even if you already have the tidiest room on the planet. That’s because the show is a great insight into human nature, relationships and psychology. In the series, Kondo visits a range of typical-but-messy American homes […]
An Alternative To Compromise
One of the things I like most about my favorite book of 2018, is how it presents a great alternative to “compromise” as a way of negotiating with people. Now, don’t get me wrong, compromise is a great tool to resolve disputes in relationships and elsewhere. But there are a lot of situations where you […]
The Best Book I Read in 2018 – Jim Camp on Negotiation
Happy New Year everyone! I wanted to start off the year by sharing something that really helped me – a great book I read towards the end of 2018. It was written by the famous Jim Camp, a guy who has coached the FBI on how to negotiate with terrorists, hostage takers and all sorts […]
Pleasure, Pain, and the Internal Compass
There are three problems I have noticed amongst young men that appear to be approaching epidemic levels in our society. (Chances are, if you don’t suffer from one of these problems yourself, you know someone who does.) The three problems are: 1) a lack of motivation in life. 2) neediness in relationships with women, and […]
How To Avoid the Lonely Badboy Blues
I recieved a very thoughtful response to one of my emails (about badboys) recently. It made me think of some profound issues that affect men today and I wanted to share it with you. Here’s what he wrote: Chris, Thank you for this email, it personally resonated with me at the perfect time. I am and have […]